What to Look out For This Festive Season: Our Privacy, Our Security
Fellow Melanated Queens,
As this festive season unfolds, we know it is
a time of joy, family, and celebration. But for us Melanated queens, it
presents a sobering reality that defines how crucial it is for us to remember,
that even amidst the merriment we indulge ourselves in, our safety remains a
paramount concern. While we embrace the spirit of the season, we need to be on
high alert and ensure we navigate through it with vigilance and awareness!
We can
revel in the festivities while keeping a watchful eye, ensuring our safety and
well-being by:
Trusting
your instincts and intuition: Be mindful of your surroundings, whether at crowded
events or walking alone, maintain situational awareness. If a situation feels off, it probably
is. If someone makes you uncomfortable, don't be afraid to say no or walk away.
Don’t hesitate to remove yourself, seek help, or call a trusted friend. Your
Voice is your weapon. Trust your instincts.
Stay informed and connected: Be in the know of potential dangers
in your area, whether it’s pickpocketing, harassment, or assault. Awareness is
power. If you must travel, inform your trusted friend(s) of family about your
whereabouts and plans. Share your live location or activate “emergency contact
sharing” features on your phone.
Limit
alcohol consumption: I know we like to have some fun, but don’t let
that fun impair your judgement and decision-making. Maintain control during the
festivities and decrease your level of vulnerability.
Mind
your social media: avoid posting or sharing information about your
location, travel plans, or personal details publicly. I know for many gen Z’s
this is like a nail in a coffin, but it’s for your own protection. Also, have
strong passwords and be wary of emails or messages sent to you by people not in
your directory of close friend, colleagues or family.
Carry a
personal alarm: This is a small device, such as pepper spray, that
can be a powerful deterrent and alert others in case there is danger. You can
get it at any supermarket or online stores. You can never go wrong with added security.
Plan
your transportation: decide beforehand how you will get home safely,
especially after dark. Consider designated drivers, ride-sharing services, or
public transportation options. Better yet, travel in groups or travel with
trusted companions.
Remember,
queens, you are strong, capable, and deserving of a safe and joyful
celebration. By practicing these simple yet crucial safety measures, you can
ensure your festive season is filled with cherished memories, free from worries
and anxieties.
For Melanated
queens in Kenya, here are some additional resources to help you stay safe this
holiday season:
Let
this season be a time of celebration, connection, and self-expression. As we
raise a glass to joy, let us also raise a shield of awareness, protecting
ourselves and each other. Shine brightly, queens, but remember to shine with
caution!
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